溝通的方式 One day, a professor asked his students: “Why do we raise our voices when we are ANGRY?” All the students thought for a while. One answered: “Because we loose our cool. That's why we SHOUT.” The professor replied, “But the person is just right 二胎next to you, why can't you talk softly and not SHOUT?” After everyone gave their opinions and shared their thoughts the Professor said; “When we are ANGRY, our hearts drift apart. Because of this "distance" , we instinctively SHOUT instead of speaking in our 汽車借款normal tones so the other party can hear us.” “But as we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And we feel we drift apart even further. So we SHOUT even louder...” “It is the opposite when we are in love. We don’t shout, we whisper into each other ears. Why?” “This is 整合負債because our hearts are very close, almost never apart. As our love deepens, we reach a state of almost perfect communication where there is no need for words.” “We understand each other well enough just by exchanging looks,” concluded the professor. Therefore, 融資when we are arguing, DO NOT speak words that will make our hearts drift apart. WAIT a few days. When you feel your hearts are no longer far apart, pick up the conversation and continue from there. 感謝您！ 祝福您！健康快樂！ 當鋪***********************************************************
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